Chapter 1: Misconceptions About Introversion

For a long time, I believed that being an introvert simply meant being shy and antisocial. But is that truly the correct interpretation?

In my early adult years, I frequently heard the term "introvert" used by peers who associated it with someone who enjoys solitude, is reserved, and shies away from social situations. However, I have come to understand that this characterization is not entirely accurate.

Reflecting back to my first days in senior year at boarding school, I was significantly impacted by a bullying roommate. I tried to manage the situation and avoid confrontation, which led me to withdraw from hostel activities. This passivity likely affected my social interactions in class, where I felt compelled to engage with others to avoid being labeled as introverted—a label often viewed negatively.

Yet, upon moving to a different hostel, I found a newfound confidence and became more outgoing. The same individual who previously shied away from activities suddenly emerged as a vibrant participant. I connected with my peers, showcased leadership abilities, and even received compliments from juniors for being an engaging and knowledgeable senior. I vividly recall someone saying, "You see why I like you, Senior Ifee, you are always current." I was knowledgeable about a wide range of topics and took the initiative in various activities, often leading discussions and coaching others. This transformation made me question, "What sparked this change in me?" It became clear that I had been surrounded by the wrong crowd.

Being in an unsuitable environment can distort your self-image and impose an inaccurate persona. In my case, it led to the false narrative that introverts are timid, cowardly, and dull, causing me to hesitate in expressing my true self. Ironically, I had never taken the time to investigate what being an introvert truly meant. It was enlightening to discover that my behavioral shift was a result of changing environments, allowing me to embrace my authentic self.

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While I may have my moments of shyness, I no longer shy away from impactful events. In my current roles in customer service and teaching at a secondary school, I exude confidence and communicate effortlessly. My ability to assess my surroundings and read people's energy allows me to interact meaningfully.

I've realized that many introverts are genuine, intelligent, and authentic. Therefore, when I encounter someone who disparages introverts, I can't help but view them as misinformed.

Chapter 2: Embracing My Identity

The first video titled "Introvert VS Antisocial - Here's the difference" explores the distinctions between introversion and antisocial behavior, shedding light on the true nature of introverts.

The second video, "The power of introverts | Susan Cain | TED," discusses the strengths and contributions of introverts, encouraging a deeper understanding of their value in society.